A DIVA's outfit!

When choosing your outfits, for any occasion, make sure you feel comfortable, and have a hint of sexy in every outfit. I have a few recommendations that can help you dress and feel like a diva!

First: Your outfit starts with the foundation: underwear! Always wear a bra that fits. It might cost a little more then you're used to, but your clothes will look a lot better on you if you make the investment. Try Victoria's Secret, and if you are, umm... heavy...lol.. try Ashley Stewart's new Butterfly collection. They were originally $40, but they are now on sale for $19.99 at http://www.ashleystewart.com/ashleystewart/browse/category.jsp?icCategory=200 . If you're looking for something even cheaper than that (I understand, times are hard) try Queen Latifah's Curvation line, which can be found at Wal-Mart for less than $15. The straps are thick and it holds up pretty good- to be a Wal-Mart bra!

Second: Alway pick the cut of pants that fits your body type. At http://www.zafu.com/zafu/shape.do?method=CHECK_BROWSER&toolId=1 you can enter your body features and they will produce jeans that will fit your and your body. As kind of a rule of thumb, a cut that looks good, will look good in any kind of pants- whether it be denims, dress pants, ect. Highlight your butt! J Lo made big butts cool, so if you have one, flaunt it, and if you're flat, get those pants that give you that lift back there- and if those pants don't exist for you wear a nice wide leg/flare leg pant.

Third: Make sure your tops (and your bottoms for that matter) are not too tight. There's nothing worse than having a top that's too tight- it's not attractive even if you're a size 0, you can emphasize your shape with belts on your mid-section or emphasize your breast with a long necklace. Tight should be reserved for your 'freak-um' dress, but not for everyday wear.

Finally: Keep your dress classy, never trashy, and certainly never slutty. You want to present yourself as strong and confident, and slutty is NEVER the way to do that. Classic pearl necklace and earrings give you that classy look. a nice pair of slingback heels will help (and are generally comfortable) and you can wear both of those items with jeans or with a suit.

Key words: Comfortable, Sexy, Not-Expensive, CLASSY!

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Diva Product of the week- Girls night in!!!

Have you been looking for a way to live like the ladies on Sex in the City? Well here it is: you can have fun at home just hanging with your girls. Depending on what you guys like to do, you can do anything from watch a movie to play board games.

To add a touch of class to any evening, add in white wine in tall slender glasses. So what is that perfect wine that you can sip on and just relax? My diva product for the weekend is:

Strawberry Arbor Mist

Or really any flavor that you like. Arbor Mist goes down very smooth, and as your Smooth Diva, I would only recommend the smooth-ist of products...lol... But seriously, it is Smooth and it taste good, so even those of your friends that are not heavy drinkers can enjoy this drink. Also, the buzz from such a light wine won't leave you sloppy and all over the place. You will be able to entertain and remain conscience, lively, and smooth! Strawberry Arbor Mist is difinitely a Diva Do!

A Diva's ringtone...

Here's an everyday tip to feeling like a diva that you may have never thought of:

When choosing a ringtone for your cell phone, pick a song that makes you feel like a diva- personally I use Beyonce's "Diva." That way every time you hear it, no matter what you're doing, you will get ya swag!!!

If you don't know what song that could be, go through your i-tunes or whatever, and look for that song you feel sexy singing, or a song that brings back good memories and makes you feel good. No matter how old the song is, or the genre, make it you ring tone. It could make the difference between you having a good day, or a bad day!

Diva product of the day!

I don't know if I'll be able to do this everyday, but when I come across a must have, I'll certainly post it. Today, the "Diva product of the day" is the limited edition

Olay Winter Retreat Body Wash- Vanilla.

If you have dry skin like I do, you will absolutely LOVE this product. It is a limited edition product, and I actually received it as a Christmas gift- but it specializes in moisturizing dryness caused by winter weather. First, I wash with the regular Olay bar of soap. I then follow up with the micro bead body wash (which smells SO good) and finish off with the soap free moisturizing body wash. The moisturizing body wash is so creamy, and when you get out of the shower, your skin won't have the dry tight feeling that often happens in the winter time. Of course, I still moisturize when I finish in the shower, but I don't have to use as much, and the moisture lasts all day.

This product is definitely a Diva Do!

Starting your Journey to DIVA!

Here are a few starting pointers to get you started to becoming a diva. Take your time, and follow these steps at your own pace, and on your own budget.

1. Keep it right, Keep it tight, but most of all: Keep it Clean: It is always important to keep yourself nice and fresh. Take a shower every day while using a sweet smelling body wash. After exiting the shower, top yourself off with some lotion so that your skin can stay soft. If you have really dry skin, try using Vaseline. It’s a little ghetto, but it keeps you nice and shiny!

2. Dress to Impress: You should always wear clothes that fit you. Always make sure that your clothes are clean and crisp. Try on a size larger than what you think you are- you might find that it makes you look slimmer, and not bigger. (But if it looks baggy, put it back on the hanger and leave it in the store!)

3. Keep your hair nice: Hair is one thing that everyone looks at. The nicer it is the more compliments, but the more tacky it is, the more gossip. Wash your hair everyday to every other day. If you are black, wash is every week and a half to two weeks. Use products that add shine, volume, and never underestimate the power of a new cut.

4. Jewelry: Your best bet is silver or gold. Try rings, necklaces, bracelets,(etc.) to bring the best in you out. But don't try to put on too much or it will look tacky. Pearls can also jazz up an outfit, and make it look classy.

5. Nails: Keep your nails filed. Make sure that they are healthy. If not people will be turned off easily. If you want to hide it then get them done at a salon. A nice French manicure or American (like a French manicure, but tented pink) manicure will do lots for your diva style.

6. Stay Healthy. You want to keep your insides as well as your outsides clean. Eat lots of fruits and veggies. Drink water very often too. And work out 3-5 times a week for 30-90 minutes. This is very important and the golden rule to looking great.

7. Sleep: Get a good night's worth of sleep. 7-10 hours is best. Lack of sleep will cause dark circles, laziness, and weight gain.

8. Wear Lip Gloss: A true Diva always looks her best and this can be accomplished with a single item. Lip gloss instantly makes your whole face look wide awake and makes you look good without needing a lot of makeup. Carry lip gloss and apply frequently during the day maintain your great Diva style. I recommend Victoria’s Secret Beauty Rush Lip Gloss. It’s inexpensive (usually 2 for 12), and it will keep your lips POPPIN’ and smelling sweet too!

9. Show Your Talents!: If you can sing, sign up for a talent show. If you can model, start taking some pics. Great at dancing? YouTube, here you come! All true divas have a talent worth showing, and if you don’t know yours yet, try them all (perhaps in the privacy of your own home…lol…)

10. Remember: You must be a diva Within first You gotta strut your stuff and never let any haters bring you down. Kimora Lee Simmons (Baby Phat founder, supermodel, true diva!) said that "fabulousity comes from within!"

11. Manners: All divas worth thinking about, like Beyonce, Jennifer Lopez, Jessica Simpson have manners. You know, please, thank you, no thank you, yes please, ma'am, sir. Don’t be rude, because it’s not lady like.

Based on http://www.wikihow.com/Be-a-Fabulous-Diva

Smooth Diva J- That's me!

I've decided to start this blog for all those out there who desire to be a diva, but need a little guidance! Sit back, have fun, and enjoy!

If you have any burning question or tips you would like to see posted, email me (J) at

SmoothDivaJ@gmail.com

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